To love yourself is a beautiful thing. We spend so much time looking for validation from others that we never really learn to do that. We constantly seek approval, we constantly settle, and we constantly end up in regret. It is time to wake up, pick up a mirror and say "I LOVE YOU", to that beautiful soul peering back at you. It can be tough, especially when a relationship ends. We feel lost, confused, and everyone around is telling us."it will be okay, this will pass, etc..."
Oh... it will. Just in case you were doubting it. What you do in the meantime will either move you forward, or anchor you in that moment.
One thing I love to do in situations where I have forgotten how to appreciate is to sit on the beach and watch the sunset. If I cannot find the beauty, peace, and appreciation for that moment... how can I find appreciation for the bigger concepts in my life.. like loss. We have to learn to appreciate those moments that were shared with that person-- good or bad.
It is not so much about learning to let go, but learning to appreciate.
You.. are all appreciated, loved, and cherished.
Mike
xoxo
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